New here? Start with my in-depth guides:


The 18yo Amateur Model

Good sex, good photos, fun times.

BDSM Without the Mask

How to get into BDSM, without feeling like you have to "know what you're doing" first.

Why Women Hide Their Sexuality (& How to Help Her Open Up)

aka, "The Madonna-Whore Complex".

⁠What I’ve Learned from 10 Years of Coaching Guys (Playing With Fire GUEST POST)

A guest post from Alex from Playing with Fire.

You’ll Breakthrough, I Promise.

You're on the right path, you legend.

I Love You Guys (No, Seriously)

I'm proud of you mo'fuckas!

It’s Okay to Be Nervous (I Am Too)

You're allowed to be imperfect - just go take action.

Nothing Is Ever Wasted (A Little Story From Today)

In other words, how to overcome negativity.

Negativity Isn’t Realism – It’s Fear Wearing Armour

Negativity is both a shield, and a prison.

Human Beings Bloom in the Soil of Acceptance

You are where you are - and that's ok.

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About Me

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy.

I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other experiences, taught myself BDSM, was in a 7-year amazing relationship with my past-girlfriend, and have met so many beautiful women since. I learned to love myself & embrace each day with gratitude and positivity.

I’ve built a fulfilling business coaching other men & women to do what I (and hundreds of other clients) have done. More than anything, I feel peaceful, happy and full of love.

If we can do this stuff, you sure as hell can too.